What lessons have you learnt by bringing a daughter into the world?
Stella: That I’m amazing
David: Yes other than Stellar is amazing… I think I had never thought about the hate speech, that there are certain words, a whole lot words for women but there aren’t the equivalent words to describe the same behavior in men and the double standard, the way women are not treated the same way in the workplace.
I grew up in a very traditional house and my dad was not the most liberal-minded in terms of the roles of who did what. Now I have Stella and Valentina and Nicole my wife who is a very outspoken person.
Stella: She curses a lot.
David: Well she curses a lot but she is also, she gets things done and I think I’ve gained a lot of respect for women living with so many of them now around the house.
“Behind every great man there is always a great woman”. What’s your opinion on this phrase?
Stella: I think it seems like the men and women should be equally treated and they are both the same as men. They both play baseball, they can both do soccer they can both drive cars, open a cooking show…
David: What do you think that means “behind every great man there is always a great woman?” Do you think it could be a wife or sister, his mum or a good friend? What’s your opinion? Do you like that expression?
Stella: No I don’t like it, it sounds sexist
David: It does in a way doesn’t it?
Stella: It says behind every great man there is always a great woman but I feel like it could be kind of sexist because it says behind every great man and we all know that men are great, men have big muscles working out at the gym.
David: but it’s the physical position in it too right, the woman behind the man. Why isn’t it the other way round? Behind every great woman there’s a great man supporting her!